gayporcelain:

no hypothetical potential situation is encouraged as much as lesbians being attracted to men in the future

no gay man says “well, I dont know what will happen in the future! i MIGHT be attracted to a woman, so i can’t say for sure I’m gay!”

women are so pressured to make space for men in their lives. i hear so often gay women saying they’re 98% attracted to women and that they dont want to be in a relationship with a man, they dont want to have sex with a man. but they still feel pressured to remain open and available to men, even if its the complete opposite of what they know they want, just in case a “”“mystery man”“” in the “”“"unknowable future”“” comes along

no other sexuality comes with this disclaimer of, dont worry! i could still be with a man! and hearing other gay women say things like this makes me so upset